You may display greater sensitivity to others at this time. While you can attract a range of people into your life and friendships can begin without notice, you may lack a clear set of guidelines to distinguish between those that assist you and those that detract from you. Being open is a wonderful quality, and you likely are more transparent now than usual, even if you prefer to keep to yourself. Unless you know what you want, however, and more importantly what you don?t want, then you may experience disappointment in certain situations. Present relationships may struggle for no apparent reason, although it may stem from a vague discontentment that lacks a discernible cause.
Issues of happiness or its absence can underlie particular areas now. You tend to want what you can?t have, and you often are dissatisfied with some things and people that you do have. You may recognize that no one thing or person can completely fulfill you as this cycle can make you aware of the limitations to experiencing real joy. Sometimes this can cause you to move from pleasure to pleasure, although that rarely fills the void. It is not the number of things that you own or the number of people you know that can sustain happiness over time. You must seek quality in whatever you choose for enjoyment and with whomever you select to share.
Money concerns can emerge during this period. The allure of beautiful objects can make you want them no matter the cost. Even if you generally exercise restraint, you may have moments of self-indulgence that overcome you, or you may have friends or partners that require much assistance, which you usually give. It is possible that resources vanish or dissolve now due to conditions that seem out of your control. You typically live and enjoy a more fluid lifestyle than usual, and you often are less judgmental. Sometimes this can become lack of judgment where your choices, especially of people, are not always in your best interests.
Although your tendency is to compromise, you may give up more than you should just to please others. In doing so, you may lose touch with your own values. An important lesson of this cycle is honesty in all your dealings with people and with yourself. It is too easy to be fooled by appearances and unless you see the truth behind them, you usually end up with something or someone that disillusions you. If you take the time to notice, you can feel whether it is a good fit, whether it brings harmony. Analysis is not required, but a sense of symmetry is, and you strongly possess that now.
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