Compatibility and Conflict Report for
Gifford Kathie Lee
and
Gifford Frank
Birth Data for Gifford K.:
Gifford Kathie Lee
August 16, 1953
11:30 PM
Neuilly sur Seine, France
Birth Data for Gifford F.:
Gifford Frank
August 16, 1930
2:10 AM
Santa Monica, California
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Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Gifford K.:
Sun position is 23 deg. 44 min. of Leo
Moon position is 13 deg. 30 min. of Scorpio
Mercury position is 5 deg. 32 min. of Leo
Venus position is 14 deg. 42 min. of Cancer
Mars position is 11 deg. 40 min. of Leo
Jupiter position is 21 deg. 16 min. of Gemini
Saturn position is 22 deg. 51 min. of Libra
Uranus position is 20 deg. 54 min. of Cancer
Neptune position is 21 deg. 38 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 22 deg. 57 min. of Leo
Asc. position is 2 deg. 26 min. of Gemini
MC position is 2 deg. 30 min. of Aquarius
2nd cusp position is 24 deg. 59 min. of Gemini
3rd cusp position is 13 deg. 14 min. of Cancer
5th cusp position is 27 deg. 48 min. of Leo
6th cusp position is 7 deg. 46 min. of Libra
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 22:30:00
Time Zone: 1 hours East. Lat & Long: 48 N 53 2 E 16
Positions and Data for Gifford F.:
Sun position is 22 deg. 48 min. of Leo
Moon position is 10 deg. 14 min. of Taurus
Mercury position is 18 deg. 18 min. of Virgo
Venus position is 7 deg. 03 min. of Libra
Mars position is 22 deg. 16 min. of Gemini
Jupiter position is 10 deg. 57 min. of Cancer
Saturn position is 5 deg. 44 min. of Capricorn
Uranus position is 15 deg. 07 min. of Aries
Neptune position is 2 deg. 55 min. of Virgo
Pluto position is 20 deg. 03 min. of Cancer
Asc. position is 13 deg. 24 min. of Cancer
MC position is 27 deg. 56 min. of Pisces
2nd cusp position is 4 deg. 45 min. of Leo
3rd cusp position is 28 deg. 41 min. of Leo
5th cusp position is 3 deg. 13 min. of Scorpio
6th cusp position is 10 deg. 16 min. of Sagittarius
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 10:10:00
Time Zone: 8 hours West. Lat & Long: 34 N 01 118 W 29
Dear friends:
Welcome to the Compatibility and Conflict Report and the myriad
ways of expressing the continual dance of life. This report is
based on methods employed through years of working with couples,
observing relationships and analyzing the lives of the famous
and infamous. The contacts described within this program are
certainly not all the combinations possible between two people.
But they are the core patterns of relationship analysis that I
begin with in determining areas of compatibility and potential
conflict between two people. I analyze these basic points of
contact to arrive at my interpretation of what is central for an
enduring relationship or for one that teaches something of
importance and leaves a lasting impression. Additional parts,
patterns and interpretations will be added to this report in the
future.
In many of the interpretations, I've described the highest
potential that one can strive for with a particular combination.
Yet it is only a potential and we are human and have complex
emotions and contradictory issues and reactions at any given
time in our lives. Use this report as a guideline to make your
relationships as rewarding and fulfilling as you possibly can.
And know that your relationships are simply mirroring your own
soul's struggles. Each relationship will fulfill something
within you and challenge you to look at your shadow and
transform yourself. Sometimes this means staying with a partner
or a relationship and sometimes the learning process requires
that you let the relationship go. These decisions are never easy
and they should only be made after careful and truthful
introspection, reflection and guidance. But ultimately, these
decisions are yours and yours alone to make. Remember that
variety is the spice of life and that although you may have some
difficult areas of relating with a partner, it is in those areas
that you can learn the most about yourself and others and grow
in wisdom. It would be a mistake to look for a partner with whom
you have no disagreements at all and this kind of relationship
is a fantasy, rarely if ever, a reality.
Thank you for purchasing this report and I hope it is meaningful
and useful to you.
Special thanks to John Flagg for unflagging editorial support.
To the mystery and magic of relationship chemistry,
Dorothy Oja
Copyright 2000
Chapter 1: Enjoyment, Closeness and Lasting Impressions
This section is based on the idea that there are three basic
needs in every relationship:
* Interest, energy and stimulation or sexuality.
* Enjoyment, abundance, expansion of awareness and happiness.
* Patterns for commitment, consistency, teaching each other
or reaffirming something essential one for the other and vice
versa.
The sort between your charts is for eleven separate aspects that
define energy, fun and lasting impressions between you. Most
strong relationships have at least four to six of these aspects
between their charts.
Gifford K.'s Sun Sextile Gifford F.'s Mars:
The core intent of this aspect is to motivate you to act and
motivate you to create and achieve together. You may find
yourselves being somewhat competitive with each other. But with
this aspect between your charts, a healthy competition can
enable each of you to move ahead and maximize the energy
generated when you are together. Fortunately, your competitive
edge tends to be smoother and easier to resolve in a positive
manner. For the most part this combination can indicate a
healthy way to support each other and get motivated to reach
higher and achieve your goals. If one of you is consistently
more selfish or if you too often place your needs before your
partner's needs, trouble will begin. This aspect encourages
directness and progress, which can help to resolve your
differences, if it is done in a fair and respectful way. Avoid
pushing, demanding or taking action without discussing important
plans with your partner. It isn't so much what you want to do as
that each person knows what the other is doing and why. And that
there is agreement in terms of the goal or goals you are
mutually pursuing. A healthy energy flow and a productive
competitiveness is easier to come by with this aspect. And your
lives will be busy and active in some important ways.
Gifford F.'s Moon Square Gifford K.'s Mars:
There is immediacy to this connection, sometimes positive and
other times negative. The intent of this aspect is to stimulate
and create a reaction in the other person and to release
emotions. This can be accomplished in endless ways. The two of
you are likely to find each other exciting and interesting and
you will quickly generate strong emotional and physical
reactions in each other. If you are in a romantic relationship,
the erotic or sexual component is more than likely very active.
You know how to reach each other or to push each other's buttons
in the positive and the negative sense. If you don't get the
response you want from the other person, it could make you
angry. If you are able to observe this dynamic between the two
of you, you will succeed in developing much greater sensitivity
in the way you relate. Instead of simply reacting, seek to
understand and discuss what is happening with your partner.
Irritation is inevitable but out-of-control anger is
inexcusable. This aspect can be selfish, so grow up. You can't
always have what you want but you can certainly lobby for it and
state your case. Being pushy or instantaneously wanting your
needs met is natural but childish. Learn to negotiate and take
turns getting what you want. If one person continually creates a
tempest in a teapot, anger coaching or aggression management
will be necessary to the survival of your relationship. A
relationship cannot remain a battleground for too long before
the battle scars create permanent damage and eventual
dissolution of the relationship. Finding the true source of your
anger will be key and is probably one of the reasons the two of
you met to begin with.
Gifford K.'s Moon Trine Gifford F.'s Asc.:
There is an easy outlet for the expression of emotions in your
relationship and your partnership will have a strong emotional
component. Expressing your feelings will be important and
necessary in your relationship and will bring you closer.
Sensing each other's moods and being responsive to your
partner's moods and needs is greatly facilitated by this aspect.
Simply being yourself, being accepted and feeling liked is the
prevailing mood created by this connection between you. Provided
you can handle the extra measure of emotional sensitivity, your
relationship is enhanced by support of each other's feelings.
You are likely to enjoy many of the same activities and have a
unique and intimate way of understanding each other that makes
being in each other's company comfortable. Interfacing with
others and the public at large is an important additional way
the two of you relate when you are together. People and social
issues are of interest to you. Most people will find you caring,
compassionate and sincere. The intent of this aspect is to
increase your caring and nurturing capacities with each other
and those whose lives you touch. Compassion and understanding in
action are an important feature of your relationship.
Gifford F.'s Sun Sextile Gifford K.'s Saturn:
This aspect requires that both of you work on developing form
and structure in your relationship with each other and the
projects of your choice. Maturation and elaborating your
specific priorities for a successful life are themes the two of
you will be evolving. Expect initiation into higher levels of
functioning. This is a growth aspect. Accepting and handling
responsibilities of various kinds will be a normal, natural part
of your relationship life. In fact, you are likely to seek
challenges. There is a desire for order and accomplishment in
anything you pursue together. As a team, you appear to enjoy
structuring, leading and organizing. Others see you as
achievement-oriented and effective at what you create together.
As partners, you require a certain level of commitment and you
are likely to want a strong foundation on which to build a life.
Your energy together leans toward the conservative and you
desire value over volume. The intent of this pattern is for
longevity and solidity to the extent that you can create this
within your relationship, you will have fulfilled the purpose of
the aspect.
Gifford F.'s Sun Sextile Gifford K.'s Jupiter:
You have come together to experience large doses of joy,
excitement, adventure, opportunity and optimism. Each of you
will feel your lives opening up as a result of your
relationship. Good will and positive thinking, provided you've
done your research, will bring you many wonderful experiences.
Because it will be easy for you to give of yourselves or your
resources, you will need to choose carefully. Overextending
yourselves is a real problem and can easily cause your joy and
optimism to come crashing down. You will desire travel and
other types of learning and personally expanding experiences.
Boredom is anathema, and so both of you will be on the alert for
fun and enriching events or projects to pursue. Learning of many
different types, philosophy and even participation in religious
or spiritual rituals, will be key elements in your life
together. A regular amount of physical activity is vital and
will keep you healthy and your ideas prolific. There is a
distinct desire for comfort and ease but if not balanced well
could lead to laziness or procrastination. The challenge in this
aspect is to maintain mental and physical health. Together, you
will be more inclined to take a philosophical attitude toward
life's experiences and to gain from its richness and variety.
Gifford K.'s Moon Trine Gifford F.'s Jupiter:
This is an aspect of abundance, generosity and exuberance. Your
giving nature will easily spill over into every project you are
involved with and the people you contact as a couple. Others
will enjoy your company because you exhibit a "can do" attitude
that is allowing, supportive and creative. You will feel happy
in each others' presence and find that your joy is doubled.
Keeping a sense of adventure and continued learning alive is an
important feature of your relationship. You can easily take
greater emotional risks with each other because there is a great
capacity for openness and goodwill between you. Honest and
candid communication is easier with this combination. Abundance
and opportunity seem to flow from you and equally toward you,
quite naturally. The way to maintain that flow is to give back
on a regular basis to causes and charities of your choice.
Because you so often take the positive position, good things
will come easily into your life. Excessiveness is an issue that
must be tempered or else you will find yourself overwhelmed with
either too many things to take care of and overextended by too
many promises to people and projects. Learning to say no, after
carefully considering your level of commitment, is an important
lesson for you.
Gifford K.'s Venus Conj Gifford F.'s Jupiter:
With Venus conjunct Jupiter, there's a special affection between
you and you enjoy each other's company. You take pleasure in
giving to each other. This is an aspect of genuine affection and
can make up for other difficult aspects you may share. The
message in this aspect is to open you up to your full potential
of emotional expression while still taking into account the
consequences. There is no expansion or expression without
universal feedback, and this aspect teaches you responsibility
for your use of energy, your own or other's. There is a natural
inclination to give freely and willingly to each other. Others
will notice your enjoyment and want to share in your positive
expression. You will draw social relationships toward you and
participate in many social activities, if you so choose. Travel
possibilities are likely, as well as a wide range of learning
situations. You are drawn to any activities that expand
possibilities and offer positive experiences. You seek a certain
amount of variety and can tolerate a fair amount of risk-taking.
Your over-optimism however, can be like wearing rose-colored
glasses, and you'll need to take them off now and then to deal
with important practical realities of your life together.
Gifford F.'s Mars Conj Gifford K.'s Jupiter:
The intent of this aspect is expansion of knowledge through
learning adventures including writing or publishing. The end
result is to attain wisdom and a greater capacity for
self-expression. It wouldn't be a surprise if you were to travel
together or participate in courses and seminars or even teach
them. You will certainly teach each other something of value. As
a team, you are able to more readily expand and promote your
ideas, goals and projects. You'll look for challenges and ways
in which you can prove your abilities. There is courage in this
aspect to try new things and to expand further and wider within
an already established system or for a brand-new project. Your
combined energy makes more possible. There is mutual
encouragement and mutual inducement to exaggerate or push
against imposed boundaries. Sometimes, the two of you will go
too far and you'll have to deal with the consequences of excess.
Still, there is much joy and laughter between you. Because your
image together is one of aliveness and exuberance, others will
be stimulated by your enthusiasm and you will gather supporters.
People will say you are lucky, but it is your positive energy
that opens doors for you and allows you to take risks for
yourselves and to improve your circumstances and those of others
you care for.
Chapter 2: Emotions and Communication Between You
These aspects detail the quality of the emotional connection and
basic comfort between the two of you and your ease or difficulty
in communicating, talking with each other and simply
understanding where each of you is coming from. These aspects
also describe how you reason together and resolve issues or
problems.
Gifford K.'s Moon Opp Gifford F.'s Moon:
Although you are attracted to each other on many levels, your
basic day-to-day habits are probably very different. You
approach life's mundane chores and happenings in ways that may
not be clearly understood by your partner. Your feelings and
responses can sometimes be confusing for the other person, as
much as they care for you and want to understand. This can cause
not only friction on a regular basis but also frustration for
both of you. Your habits and peculiarities can grate on each
other and be the cause of arguments and misunderstanding. If you
care for each other, you will, with patience and willingness to
compromise, resolve some of these differences. Still, you
operate differently internally, which stems very much from your
upbringing and how you responded to your early conditioning.
These habits and predilections can be difficult to change, and
you may simply have to accept the differences in each other.
Discussing your feelings openly is a crucial part of this
combination. There is a good chance that, once you really
understand the emotions behind the attitude or habitual
responses of your partner, greater tolerance will result. On the
other hand, once your partner understands how you are affected
by a particular response or habit, modifying the offending or
annoying behavior is part of the compromise necessary for
relationship harmony. This aspect definitely requires more
tolerance, acceptance and willingness to allow for differences
in mood and reaction. You have attracted this combination
because you need to dig deeper into your habitual ways of
responding and seek out the roots of your behavior by exploring
your upbringing. There are many things you do that are
unconscious and automatic, and contact with your partner will
allow you to take a closer look, modify the negatives and also
reaffirm your strongest feelings.
Gifford K.'s Mercury in Leo, and Gifford F.'s is in Virgo:
Although you are attracted to each other, there are times when
one of you will have great difficulty in figuring out where the
other is coming from and what she (or he) is trying to tell you.
Your styles of communication can be very different. The premises
upon which you base your reasoning or the logic you use will
often perplex your partner. Especially if you have to decide on
projects or activities together, your differences can quickly
become an issue between you. Talking things through slowly, step
by step, will help each of you to understand how the other
arrived at his (or her) opinion or conclusion. This will take
patience but in the end will be worth it. What's more, by taking
the time to really understand how your partner is thinking, you
can not only learn something important about your partner but
also get a different perspective yourself. You will also learn
how your communication affects others, since your partner is
probably not the only one who can't always understand what
you're trying to say or figure out your logic. You've attracted
this kind of relationship exactly for the purpose of fine tuning
your thought processes and becoming more adept and flexible in
the ways you have of communicating with others. This will be
doubly useful if you are in a business that requires writing or
regularly communicating with others.
Chapter 3: Fulfilling Each Other's Partnerships Needs
These aspects explain how you meet each other's desires and
dreams in special partnerships and one-on-one relationships.
These aspects are based on what your natal chart describes that
you're looking for in any major relational interaction.
Gifford F.'s Sun Sextile Gifford K.'s 7th house ruler, Jupiter:
A heightened joyousness and optimism is a central part of your
relationship. You have the capacity to make each other very
happy. Both of you will want an expansive, "good life" filled
with many choices and opportunities. There is, however, a
tendency to be overly enthusiastic, exaggerate and be
potentially careless with important details. Large ideas and
concepts will be more appealing to you, so perhaps you should
leave the important details to others. Developing your major
life goals will be an overriding concern. There is a distinct
expansiveness and even a willingness to take risk for your
interests. The intent of this aspect is development and growth
to express fully your personality and creative individuality.
This development takes place through making wise choices and
exercising discrimination to determine the truly positive
experiences from those that are a waste of your time. You can
create opportunities because of the positive attitude you
express but avoid being opportunistic. Receiving recognition for
what you do best is important for your long-term satisfaction.
Continued learning and experiencing of life through travel,
sports other challenges is probably a mainstay of your
relationship.
Gifford F.'s Mercury Square Gifford K.'s 7th house ruler, Jupiter:
Discussing ideas, theories and concepts with each other, and
engaging in debate on various topics can be some of the greatest
joys of your relationship. There will be times when you are
likely to talk for hours. In fact, you can be so aware of
different options and possibilities that it may be difficult at
times to reach a decision. During those times, flipping a coin
may be your best bet. Your natural friendliness will bring you
in contact with many different types of people from all walks of
life. Your personal philosophy centers around being open to
learning from anyone you meet. You will however, be happiest
with friends who are open-minded, spirited and positive.
Learning, teaching and traveling are mainstays of your
relationship and you will find your individual ways and means to
express the desire to expand your experiences. Because you
exhibit a renaissance tendency -- that is, you are interested in
many ideas and activities -- you may often over-schedule
yourselves. This can create feelings of overextension and of
being overwhelmed and overstressed. You may want to do it all
but you will have to make wise choices. The intent of this
aspect is indeed to open new horizons for each of you but also
to teach you to discriminate among the many opportunities and
experiences for those worth having.
Gifford F.'s Mars Conj Gifford K.'s 7th house ruler, Jupiter:
You will encourage each other to act on your impulses or take
advantage of opportunities that come your way. There is a sense
of adventure that is stimulated by being together. Testing your
limits through sports or otherwise taking risks is a feature of
this aspect between you. Your actions and plans can easily
influence others to take chances and expand their life
possibilities. Your encouragement can make a positive difference
in other people's lives. Your energy together encourages a
renaissance style or one that is interested in many different
activities and projects, and sometimes in your desire to
experience, you will overwhelm yourselves and your schedules. Be
aware of the difference between recognizing an opportunity and
being an opportunist. Resist making too many claims to boost
your self-importance or making promises that you cannot or will
not keep. The intent of this aspect is to have you go beyond
instant gratification and seeking the applause of others.
Applause will come naturally as you act wisely in taking
advantage of the opportunities that come your way or expanding
the resources at hand. In the process, you will learn about
misjudgment and miscalculation, especially if you act without
the necessary information. You can achieve great things by
curbing ego, staying on target and eliminating unnecessary
distractions that keep you from your important goals.
Chapter 4: Your Closest Contacts, Your Strongest Themes
This section interprets the closest connections between your
charts. The idea is that the closest ties explain the major or
central themes of your relationships and the reason you have
come together. The nature of these aspects will also define the
main activities, interests and patterns that comprise your life
together.
Notice that in this section each paragraph contains both the
easier expression of energies as well as the more challenging
ones. Both interpretations are included because these close
connections pertain to the central learning curve of your
relationship. Based on the premise that the more exact the
connection (also the closest energetic contact) between your
pair of planets, the more psychologically significant the aspect
will be for each of you. This means that you are likely to be
strongly influenced by each other in the areas described.
Because of this, it will be useful to consider both the easier
and more challenging interpretations even though you lead with
one of them. You will, from time to time and in various
circumstances, probably exhibit some elements of each group,
both the easier expressions as well as the more challenging
ones. Another thing -- it's possible with both types of aspects
that you will have the same challenges but simply respond or
react to them in different ways. The goal is to rise to the best
possible expression of each combination. This is the learning
curve and this bestows wisdom.
Gifford F.'s Sun Conj Gifford K.'s Pluto:
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main
relationship theme centers on the expression and understanding
of your power and motivation, the development of your resources
and harnessing your personal demons.
Challenging aspects: You will learn a great deal about how to
express your personal power. Be aware that trying to manipulate
others typically backfires. Seek rather to know and develop
yourself, to get more of what you want. Holding on too tightly
because of fear of losing will more than likely bring you
exactly the losses you feared. Releasing whatever no longer
works in your life can be difficult, but a relief once you learn
to yield. Although you will struggle to understand your desires
and motives and create a fulfilling life, if you focus your
energies in a positive direction and your intentions are clear,
you will gain your desire.
Easier aspects: You are likely to be quite creative together.
You stimulate each other to bring forth the desires and
resources you have to offer each other and the world. Developing
and marketing your talents will be easier for you than most. You
appear to have an instinct for knowing what to do when and to
persuade others to be on your side. Resolving inevitable
conflicts and transforming outworn patterns will be easier for
you.
Gifford K.'s Moon Trine Gifford F.'s Asc. (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main
relationship theme concerns the comfort you feel with emotional
expression or its lack, in your relationship. You will be
acutely aware of and receptive to each other's emotional state,
the feelings of others and your environment.
Easier aspects: Emotional expression will probably be easy
between you. In fact, warmth, closeness and physical
demonstration of affection are desired and enjoyed by both of
you. You are likely to attract others to you readily and may
even be in a business where there is much interaction with the
general public. Your preferred style together is naturalness,
caring and sincerity in your dealings with people and it is
exactly what endears you to others.
Challenging aspects: Because you are so emotionally attuned to
each other, you can become hypersensitive to your partner's
moods and, at times, can easily hurt each other's feelings.
Balancing your emotional expression by curbing excessive
displays of negativity or refusing to use emotionality to gain
inappropriate attention will be one of your tasks. Family
concerns and various emotional situations can push your
boundaries and prevent you from progressing. Be compassionate
and helpful but also firm, to maintain your own emotional
balance.
Gifford F.'s Sun Sextile Gifford K.'s Saturn (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main
relationship theme is one of responsibility and credibility. You
will likely be ambitious to achieve certain goals and work hard
at self-improvement. Honing your skills and talents in order to
gain the respect of your peers or community is important. With
consistent effort, you can become experts and leaders in your
field of endeavor.
Easier aspects: In your relationship, you will seek security
and stability for yourselves and anyone or anything else under
your care and protection. You are organizers and will forge
step-by-step plans to reach your goals. Others will admire your
persistence and discipline. Because you enjoy being productive,
or enjoy the benefits of working, there are times when you'll
overwork yourselves. You will need to learn to balance your work
time with relaxed, fun times. Although you seem to attract
responsibility, it is also something you desire and you appear
to handle it well, most of the time.
Challenging aspects: You are likely to have many struggles in
your life together and, perhaps, more responsibility than most
for children or parents or your careers. Although your successes
are often hard-won, you are unlikely to give up, and your
struggles can make you stronger. What's important is that you
refuse to become negative or cynical if things take longer or
are more difficult than you wanted. Maintaining your integrity
in the midst of adversity will earn you the respect and trust of
others, and with time and persistence, you will reach your
goals.
Gifford K.'s Venus Square Gifford F.'s Uranus (challenging aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main
relationship theme concerns sensitivity, compassion, forgiveness
and the power of the unseen through symbols and imagination.
There is a reverence and faith.
Challenging aspects: The other side of this hypersensitivity is
the dislike of conflict, which can lead to various avoidance,
neglect or substance abuse behaviors. Learn to trust your
intuition to keep you from questionable experiences. Although
your feelings can be confused or conflicted or you can be
plagued by doubts, seek to speak the truth in so far as you know
it, to avoid giving your partner the wrong signals. Deliberate
untruthfulness would be damaging to your long-term relationship.
Easier aspects: This aspect is gentle and hypersensitive.
Together you will express a natural sweetness, kindness and
caring for each other and the feelings of others. You will be
blessed with an ability to understand and experience the special
magic of life and a deeper understanding of its mysteries if you
are open to this. Faith and a spiritual practice are important
ingredients in your lives. It's possible you inspire others
through the arts or through a service profession or community
work.
Gifford F.'s Neptune Square Gifford K.'s Asc. (challenging aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main
relationship theme concerns sensitive, compassionate attunement
to others and to your surroundings. There is also a strong
artistic sensibility and self-expression with this aspect.
Challenging aspects: Your kindness and compassion can be
displaced, and you need to be conscious of your boundaries and
those of others. You easily absorb the energies of the
environment or people close to you. Take regular time to retreat
and sort out the stimuli you've picked up, in order to alleviate
the saturation and, oftentimes, confusion that results. Because
you are sensitive, protect yourselves from being taken advantage
of. Sometimes, life is difficult for those with your
sensibility, but avoid substance abuses. Instead, seek sources
of inspiration such as music, the arts, meditation or a
spiritual practice and spend time with positive people.
Easier aspects: Your relationship is focused more on inner
feelings and sensibilities than on the external masks you wear.
The way you feel when you are together and the energy exchanged
between you mean more to you than other characteristics. You
have a silent way of communicating with each other that is
endearing to those who know you. Both of you are likely to be
interested in service or community work of some kind. Bringing
hope and inspiration into situations that are difficult, and
providing understanding and relief means much to you. Music and
the arts runs like a thread through your lives.
Gifford F.'s Mars Trine Gifford K.'s Saturn (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main
relationship theme is to be committed, to act with excellence
and integrity and to pursue your goals with determination and
persistence.
Easier aspects: You will want to know where you stand in your
relationship. You do not like to leave things to chance but,
instead are planners and organizers. Making a commitment to each
other is almost certain. For each person to be certain of his or
her position within the relationship, is the only way you feel
you can make your relationship work. Precision and excellence
will distinguish all the activities you undertake as partners.
Your striving for the best is encouraging to others and they
will admire and emulate, if not your achievements, then your
style.
Challenging aspects: You are likely to face obstacles and
challenges together that, at times, will test your commitment
and strength. But you do have the endurance to overcome
obstacles. Maintain your integrity and with persistence and
determination you will achieve your goals. Your energies can be
preoccupied with family issues. Resistance and defensiveness are
habits you do not want to indulge. Allow external challenges to
develop your inner unshakeable strength.
Gifford F.'s Mars Trine Gifford K.'s Neptune (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main
relationship theme is to act with faith and inspiration, remain
sensitive to the subtleties of life and find your soul's best
expression.
Easier aspects: It's the energy or feeling you sensed from your
partner that probably attracted you at first. You are finely
tuned and are very selective in the people you allow close to
you. There are specific sensibilities you look for in friends
and companions. Compassion and understanding will lead you to
various kinds of service work for career or community and your
partner will be supportive. You can choose the arts, music
writing, etc., for inspiration or as your own personal
expression of your soul's purpose. A spiritual connection will
be a mainstay of your relationship life.
Challenging aspects: Because this aspect is hypersensitive, you
can sometimes transmit mixed signals in your partnership or with
others. This happens particularly when you're overstimulated,
overtired or stressed. At those times, remove yourself from
others to clear your energies and find your center. Work at
being as direct and up front about your feelings as you can,
even if you are conflicted. It's better than avoiding, evading
or hiding them, which causes hurt to those who love you. Finding
a spiritual practice will renew you and empower you to respect
your boundaries and those of others. The arts will sustain and
soothe you.
Gifford F.'s Mars Sextile Gifford K.'s Pluto (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main
relationship theme is to understand, express and harness the
wealth of human emotion, passion and power.
Easier aspects: As partners, you are able to focus your
energies easily on what you want from life and you have the
energy to attain it. You pursue each other's love or respect
with great passion and power and, your bond is a strong one. You
will be solicited for positions of power once people understand
that you can make things happen in a big way. Part of giving
back can be to encourage and train younger folk to persist and
go for the prize.
Challenging aspects: In your relationship, you will be dealing
with the deep and sometimes unresolved emotional and
psychological conflicts of your partner. Intimacy makes these
wounded areas of your partner's psyche more vulnerable. So tread
carefully and also don't overreact. Spend necessary time to
understand what motivates you and be sure to "own your stuff,"
as they say. Avoid blaming others or projecting your hurts. Work
with your frustrations and your passion and learn to control
your angry responses. Self-control, now that's real power.
Gifford K.'s Sun Conj Gifford F.'s Sun:
If this is your most exact aspect, the major theme of your
relationship concerns willpower and how you will use it to reach
your goals. The role of ego, recognition and your place in life
are another feature of this combination.
Challenging aspects: Often there is a clash of wills or you go
about life in very different ways. As long as you respect each
other's methods of searching for admiration and recognition in
life, you will be fine. Still, at times, you may not understand
how your partner wants to be recognized and you could fail to
give what he or she needs. With some discussion of what is
meaningful to each of you, these misunderstandings can be
corrected.
Easier aspects: You will feel harmony in terms of how you want
to live your life and the overall goals you have together. Even
your personalities will be similar and you can count on each
other's support for your primary enterprises. It will be easy,
most of the time, to give your partner the strokes or support
needed to keep doing their personal best both in your
relationship and in their chosen career. Both of you have an
intuitive understanding of what is needed. |
