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An unstable condition may appear during this period, especially in your home or personal life. Although this can raise your level of stress, it generally is an inconsistent influence that manifests randomly or when you least expect it. Sometimes the condition is constant but your reaction to it varies depending on your mood or for no discernible reason at all. Your behavior is occasionally unpredictable regardless of the situation, and you tend to keep others off balance. They can have difficulty gauging how you will respond because you may not fit any pattern.
On the other hand you may encounter incongruities from others, especially with those closest to you. Problems with family members can arise suddenly now as willful responses can isolate you and another. Compromise usually is out of the question as being right overrides being united. Inflexibility can occur which can make it challenging to adjust to unexpected demands that often characterize this interval. One of the tests of this cycle is learning how to adapt to unforeseen events that likely require you to change your behavior in some small or large way when you generally don?t want to change. By resisting you can increase tension to an intolerable level where you can emotionally go off without warning.
Finding outlets for any emotional tension can allow you to channel it appropriately and relieve the buildup. This is not to suggest that control is the answer. You tend to go against the grain periodically during this interval anyway and trying to suppress that is probably counterproductive. Although you often take an unyielding stance because you feel you are right, and although this can cause anxiety due to pressures to change your position, you can gain a measure of flexibility by adjusting those patterns of behavior that are easy to change. This can include elements of your daily routine from how you brush your teeth to when you walk the dog. In making small but conscious adjustments you prepare for the possibility of new insights that can allow you to recognize the correct response to larger issues that may bother you.
Occasionally this cycle concerns unexpected events in your living situation that can prompt you to move, or you may want to move but cannot. Sometimes your needs are unmet or are no longer met due to surprising episodes that can destabilize your personal life. Regardless of how this period manifests, it presents situations that can force you to come to grips with how you really feel, and it provides the potential for emotional freedom. To achieve that, however, you must look objectively at your behaviors and be willing to change wherever necessary, so that how you feel and how you respond are congruent.
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